May 8, 2008
Sam’s 21 Keys to Success
“I’ve been thinking….”
I call this my 21 Keys to Success, although I have picked up a few more that I feel have earned the right to be included, and it looks more like 33 things now. Please do me a favor and do not read this right now. Print it out right now, and read it when you have at least 15 minutes or so to digest. With my experience, it will mean a lot more to you, if you have some private time to absorb the words and the meanings. Over the years, I have had many hundreds of people write me and call me and say that my simple words in this little note have helped them in some fashion. If you do not change, or try to change, or even pause to take a close look at your life and where you are and where you want to go……when will you do it? Just do one little thing today…..today-as soon as you read this, take action-Now!!!
1. Marry the right person. This one decision alone will determine 90% of your happiness or misery.
2. Work at something you enjoy and that is worthy of your time and talent.
3. Give people more than they deserve, and do it cheerfully.
4. Become the most positive and enthusiastic person you know.
5. Be happy-people like to be around, and do business with, happy people with positive energy.
6. Be generous.
7. Have a Grateful Heart!
8. Persistence-Persistence-Persistence-Persistence…….etc.
9. Discipline yourself to save money-even on the most modest income or salary-this will work wonders for your self-esteem.
10. Treat everyone you meet like you would want to be treated.
11. When you meet someone, turn your heart towards them. This will send a signal you want them to like you and that you like them.
12. Commit yourself to constant improvement.
13. Do one “thing” every day. Make a list of the “things” you would like to do or get done. Pretty soon you have some “things” done. Hey-you have to start somewhere.
14. Commit yourself to quality.
15. Understand that happiness is not based on possessions, power or prestige, rather on relationships with people you love and respect!
16. Be loyal.
17. Be Honest.
18. As my grandfather once said: “If you always tell the truth-you never have to remember what you said….and that’s when life gets real simple”
19. Be a self-starter
20. Be decisive-even if it means might be wrong sometimes.
21. In sales and in life….every “No” gets you closer to a “Yes”
22. The “Sale” begins when the customer says “No”
23. Stop blaming others. Take Full responsibility for your actions, and every area of your life.
24. Understand that life is not “fair”. “Fare” is what you pay to ride the bus.
25. Take real good care of those you love.
26. Don’t do anything that wouldn’t make your Mom proud.
27. Life is a “do-it-yourself project”….open up the box and get started on it today.
28. My childhood friend and ultimate mentor, Tom Green once told me-Never say anything real bad about your Mother- – -she is one of the only two only reasons you are here on earth. Keep Respect in your heart for her, even if you might get upset with her. There is a big difference.
29. Money isn’t everything. The sooner in life you realize this-the happier you will be. Take a real close look at the people who have real money….and ask yourself, are they really and truly “happy?” Are folks like Donald Trump, and Paris Hilton, really happy? Look at the professional athletes who, it seems like are more and more getting in trouble. Are they happy?
30. There is no excuse for being rude to someone. If someone cuts you off in traffic, just take your hand and wave them into your lane, it will make you feel absolutely tremendous.
31. The right decision comes automatically to you- – -no thought required. When you have a ‘decision’ to make, and you have to ‘think’ about it, it’s probably not the right thing to do.
32. Don’t ever forget that our life here on earth is temporary. Don’t treat life as a dress-rehearsal…..this is the real thing.
33. (and my favorite) Be bold and courageous. WHEN YOU LOOK BACK ON YOUR LIFE-PLEASE DON’T REGRET THE THINGS YOU DIDN’T DO MORE THAN THE ONES YOU DID.
Filed under Attitude by Sam Milton
